Free downloadable
seating chart in MS Word
format.
Whether
your wedding has 20 or 200 guests, it can be nice to set up a seating
chart, and here's why: I realize that having a seating chart might seem
too formal, and
you might want things to be less stuffy. BUT - having a seating chart
actually helps make the evening easier for your guests. A wedding isn't
like a normal dinner party - there are so many guests that if there
isn't a seating chart, guests that aren't the first to show up often
wind up
getting lousy seats.
Why I recommend a seating chart, even for more informal
wedding receptions: To start off with, your wedding caterer will set
the tables ahead of
time, often in tables of 6, or 8, or 10, so, which means that unless
everything is planned ahead of time, someone is going to be bummed out.
- Example A: Aunt Margaret and Uncle Joe show up
at the wedding
reception with their three children, and there's no seating chart, they
may find that all the tables are half-full, and thus there's no room
for them to sit together. They'll have to split up the family among two
tables (which may not even be near each other), whereas if there was a
seating chart, they would have been able to sit together.
- Example B: Bob and Jane, friends from your
college, arrive at the reception, and look for the "college table"
where all their friends are sitting. But becaue everything is
disorganized, all their friends are spread out, and they can't all sit
together.
- Example C: Single woman shows up, has to
sit with seven of her aunts. In a proper wedding seating chart, each
table has half men and half women, and she probably would have been
seated with other single people. After all, you want your guests to
have as much fun as possible!
Bonus: Your seating chart = guest list. The other reason a seating
chart is helpful is for planning how many guests you want, and which
ones. With a seating chart, you can visualize the "college
friends", the "groom's family", the "bride's family from Germany",
etc., and thus the seating chart can be a great way to make your guest
list!