When you plan your Minnesota
wedding, you have hundreds of choices and a limited amount of time.
With the right help, planning your wedding can be a joy.
I am at your service throughout the entire process, from the initial
planning stages to the wedding itself. You can feel completely
confident and relaxed, knowing that I will always respect your wishes,
and that your thoughts and ideas are always at the forefront of my
plans. I am always available for guidance, information, and support.
Please note that if you’re planning a
• A Saturday
• Between May and October of 2008
• Between 2:00 and 6:00 pm
...It would be a good idea to contact me right
away. Many of these highly sought-after wedding times are booked. 2009
is also starting to get booked.
Our Initial Meeting
When we meet, we will review all elements of the wedding ceremony you
envision: vows, rings, readings, music, everything--including your
family considerations, location characteristics, recommendations for
top-notch wedding vendors, and everything else involved in planning
your unique wedding. We will discuss your feelings
and beliefs, and any unique circumstances. I will always
respect your wishes and feelings, and together, we will customize your
Once you’ve reserved
my services, I will get
right to work on your ceremony scripting, writing up everything that we
worked on at our meeting.
Within 7 to 14 days,
you will receive the entire customized wedding ceremony scripting for
your review. Your script will be a clear, well-organized document,
fully detailed and complete. This writing out of the scripting for your
review is especially important and unique to my services. I undertake
this effort so that you will always know exactly what to expect. With
this complete scripting in hand, you will feel secure and confident
knowing that your wedding ceremony is personalized and customized to
reflect your beliefs, values, and wishes.
Once you receive your
scripting, you can go through it at your leisure to make sure that
everything is exactly how you want it. We will work together in the
coming months to make it absolutely perfect. If there are changes, just
let me know and I will send you a newly revised scripting, so we’re
always on the same page.
Your Minnesota marriage license
administration will be taken care of by me so you can concentrate on
more important things, like enjoying your big weekend.
By this point, you’ll
have the complete and final scripting, with any and all changes you
requested. We will rehearse the service at the location of your choice,
and you will have the security of knowing that your wedding party,
family, and everyone else is completely comfortable and confident.
the rehearsal, you will be completely prepared and ready for your
wedding. You won’t have to be in charge of anything—if anyone asks you
for anything, from the florist to the caterer to a member of your
family or your wedding party, you can answer with confidence, “Talk to
Pastor Tomkin.” You can be completely in the moment, enjoying your big
if I'm free on your date and time!